Yue-Sai Kan Chinese lady

September 19, 2011
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the 10 winners have to have a quality of 10 Qualities a Successful Woman Must Have criteria choices work 2 2 2 2 Principle in Choosing a Career would finance the ladies Manage Money Successfully fundamental cosmetics makeup bag essential tool dresser universal multi-purpose three-color powder shadow mode Daily Skincare skin care routine care players, elbows, knees and feet Hands Elbows, Knees and Feet Manicure based tools Basic Manicure / Pedicure Tools universal means universal make-up lady of hydrogen peroxide solution Indispensable Must-have Accessories used to create self-popular style Incorporate Popular Trends into Your Own Style learn to relieve stress Dealing with Stress formation of a good dating dating What Makes a Good Date when the topic Topics for Discussion ladies how to deal with break up How to Deal with a Break-up husband and wife Husband and Wife

the 10 winners need to have quality
10 Qualities a Successful Woman Must Have
successful, there will be some special quality, that is what I want to to nurture. The following are my understanding of these qualities shared by successful people. I also have them money, time management, how to do the cause of loss of choice, and how to seek success. Life is not a pleasant journey, so I finally want to tell you how to do when faced with the dilemma, and focus on how to achieve success.
10 种 good moral character necessary for successful –
1. Dress yourself appropriately is the most conceited and show respect for others, a way of expression.
2. Learn good social skills
3. I find that most good tempered eloquence leading total to express their ideas clearly and feelings, encouraging subordinates, and all this through a clear and attractive voice. Voice lessons and report on the lessons is a good choice. Although I do a lot of years, television, and is still sometimes on these courses.
4. Learn the most decent social etiquette you more polite, more people will respect you. Although it seems trivial, but the etiquette is essential to the quality of a person underappreciated. “Etiquette is more than for others,” to this sentence into their daily lives. Want to learn more about their young parents to teach the next generation of these rituals.
5. One hundred percent honest or can temporarily blinded some people, but he could not fool everyone forever. I thought it was unusual was seen successful and rich people, but the ultimate result of fraud the public and the government into the prison. Only honest people are the most admired.
6. There are more valuable than money, conserve conservation, money, frustration bought literacy. Training includes four elements: the surface, sounds, manners, conversation.
7. Make people more inspiration and caring friends are always around if you are some boring, stingy, cold people, then you could become such a person.
8. Desire to maintain their knowledge through non-stop for learning to empty life.
9. Humble the most arrogant people is the most ignorant person. Many country guide people, just the people around them are very arrogant, but they themselves are never the case. You know, the more you have the location, the more that it is not necessary.
10. Respect for all labor to work in my company does not compete with distinction. In order to prove each of the importance of working in the company, there is a good way to do it again you personally, I have taught my staff how to wash toilets in Shenzhen.
the best I e ever read a book that is Dell? Carnegie “How to win the friendship and influence others” (Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence Others). Although this book was written in the 1970s, until today it is still very influential. Carnegie argued that there are six important skill you must learn: the sincere look at other people, smile, remember someone name, do a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves, talking about topics of interest to others, so others feel that their importance.
choose to work the principle of 2 2
2 2 Principle in Choosing a Career
you have for their ideals and confused before? In fact, such experience is extensive, both in the older section of which, many people will have this missing sense, I am no exception. When I decided to make his professional life decisions, ask yourself four questions, a good answer to these four questions, then I will make a decision.
1. whether there is expertise Discover Your Talent
If a person can only use half of his, he has failed in half; if a person has talent and has been completely display, then he is a great winner, he received the kind of results are very few people can understand the sense to get.
– Thomas? Wolfe (American author)
everyone has their own talent and ability, there must be some things that can do better than others. When we praise you, you appreciate that these written down, this may give you some inspiration. At the same time, self-evaluation should try to remain objective. If your height 1.5 m, even if you feel that possessing the ability to play basketball, and can not be like Michael? Jordan to launch the same great basketball operation. I wish to become a pianist, but when I got to a certain level, it can not recognize their own talents to become a world-class pianist, so I selected waste. Possession of talent and the talent to become convinced that their own career and revenue there is a difference. Some talent only as a personal interest, and not as a professional. You should leave this to the two areas.
2. whether there is sufficient enthusiasm Where Is Your Passion?
“I really like to do this? This is the most in this world you want to do events? “If not, stop going. Nothing more than your ability to know how these things are not your passion lie? Time is a test of the scale. If you really like a job, that time becomes irrelevant – you can join here 24 hours a day I do not know fatigue, but also 7 days a week, working 24 hours a day, day after day, year after an years of work down. I have never seen a job to do, but he does not like people can be very successful.
If the above two questions you can give a positive answer, then you are really a lucky woman, you have found the secret of success. If you can not do the above two points, you may never succeed, but with the above two points is not enough for me, I chose to work with the 2 2 principle. That is, to be more the following two principles.
3. whether the benefit of others Think of Others
There is no principle of what people will do bad things.
– Alexander? Hamilton (USA Father)
I despise those who had only their own benefits, where appropriate, but the gentleman the expense of others, those who reach their goals at bully? others, hurt other people. Think more people! So you have more general purpose of the meaning of life. I trust those who build new China, precisely when they take into account the suffering of the people, they will be so many people love and respect. When I decided to do television, cosmetics, Yue-Sai doll and write books, I have only one purpose, which is sponsored by the Chinese opened the door to the world, the first volume to an ancient Chinese method of life, and to people on their own a new awareness and progress.
4. is beneficial to China Think of China
because I made the last 20 years, much of the work and the Chinese, so I will ask myself, “this will conducive to the development of China? If answer is yes, I will do it.
I can frankly say that only the above issues are done to determine the answer, it is worthy of my do. even if the outcome is failure, not work right or wrong, but the opportunity, the market premise, treatment or other cause I can not control the result of this and the money which has nothing to do, if you have the talent, enthusiasm, and decided to threw himself into doing the best, the money will follow naturally, I did all have confirmed this.
would finance the ladies
Manage Money Successfully
If you do not know how to manage money, you l never get rich in 1949 after the liberation, my family moved to Hong Kong from the mainland the sea, did not carry a lot of property with, but my mother is very good at financial management, my sister and I They have a lot of rich kids than we have of things, my mother always made us feel very rich, she put a large sum of money invested in real estate, when I preparation to the United States university, his mother just sold her investment a room enough in my three sisters to the United States when he was studying, the mother is doing.
I learned from her mother from financial point of view –

1 necessary to address the role of earning money is not important how much, how much it can leave important.
2. l save money from the school from the age of 16 for the first time I started to make money, put 10 % save it.
3. “save 1 minute to earn a point that is” all the money spent is a bad habit.
4. to learn how to make “Money begets money,” “passive income” is the most imaginary income.
5. learn to identify the assets and liabilities do not appreciate some things but Qidan depreciation, they are liabilities. For example, the car is not asset because from the moment it landed value fell by 1 / 3! Also, clothes are not assets.
6. own real estate is good backing when I have enough money down payment, the I immediately bought their own apartment. I was only 20 years old, this is my most sensible thing to do one of the investment has given me a sense of peace, and it added a lot over the years and today, I All the largest part of investment to invest in real estate, of course, you can put other investment income as the origin of the Italian entrepreneurial discipline Jani? Achilles (Gianni Agnelli) once told me that he invested in the art money than he was in his famous Fiat (FIAT) Auto companies earned more than.
7. to make a rich life is worth spending the money I was a child, the parents will not give My 5 cents to buy chewing gum, but when I want to play music of Beethoven D record, no matter how much money they will buy, they know this is a costly investment in my own.
8 time and a place to spend money to tell I have a friend, business start-ups to rent a big office, the house live in luxury, this is very sensible when the business first, spending as little as possible, the most important thing is First, the company set up when the cause of development, the need of a lot of money tend to go beyond the estimates, not to spend money on irrelevant and where their business and many years ago, my TV industry is in a small apartment in the beginning, but I do not mind, because of low overhead can be frugal money into programs to improve the quality of the more important things.
9. try not to debt, there must be planning to spend money mother said, “Do not spend the money to Japan.” I do not like to borrow money, it feels too constrained and when to spend money to lose control when you suffer is when you have a credit card, I initiatives do not uncontrolled overdrafts, many Americans have such bad habits.
basic cosmetic in cosmetic
□ 1. lipsticks
< br /> □ 2. eyebrow pencil
□ 3. pink rouge
□ 4. a nail file
□ 5. a vial cream
□ 6. Lipliner
□ 7. Mascara
□ 8. Powder shadow color

□ 9. eye drops
□ 10. a small bottle of hand cream
□ 11. lip gloss or lipstick gold
□ 12. powder cake
□ 13. Vitamin E lip balm
□ 14. vial of perfume on the dresser
essential tool
< br /> □ 1. mirror
□ 2. eyeshadow stick
□ 3. eyelash curler
□ 4. sharpener
□ 5. eyebrow brush
□ 6. tweezer
□ 7. Brush
□ 8. to the foundation sponge
□ 9. blusher brush
◎ how to pick lip liner no matter how trends change, I never give up the use of lip liner, it can help me achieve delicate lip Select the brink of the lip liner and lipstick color or slightly darker point.
◎ how to choose eye shadow I used to by lipstick, blush and earrings to make facial makeup and clothing match and does not include eye shadow, of course, if the spring allows, you can also use colored eye shadow. common brown eye shadow is my favorite, which is simply a panacea Chinese lady eye shadow, it can not only adapt to the vast majority of clothing color, the crux is to make God your eyes shining, black and white obviously.
universal multi-purpose three-color powder shadow
looks like a shadow, in fact, it is the “three multi-color powder shadow. “It is not only as a powder eye shadow, eyebrow pencil can replace, or even to create a broken facial somatosensory you can need to coordinate the use of three colors, not a day I do not use the” three-color multi-shaded pink “!
1. light brown painted it on the eyelid, so that the eye is not so swollen; the light brown eye shadow along the nose on both sides of the lines described two 5mm wide, smooth evenly over the edge by hand, so that nose thinner; with a little bit of light brown painted lips following the next, so lips look plump.
2. dark brown dark brown shadow powder is wet or dry, and with a finger dipped, with light brown eye shadow powder coated cover, reflecting the grade of the eye; with eyebrow brush dipped in place of artificial eyebrow pencil to delineate; through slightly damp eyeliner brush dipped in flour can be used to describe the shadow eyeliner.
3. The white can be used for promotion you want to uplift facial parts, such as painted in the brow, nose, chin, etc..
daily skin care methods
Daily Skincare
like I do other things, like my daily skin care is also very simple:
wake up In the Morning
⊙ dampened with a soft piece of cotton wash cleansing liquid, I use this product at least 10 years, it completely clean my face and then rinse with water.
⊙ review of the skin state, facing a magnifying glass, tweezers pull excess hair, no more than 10 seconds.
⊙ with the MOISTURE or repair of toner.
⊙ in Use Eye Cream around the eyes in the summer, I use eye cream MOISTURE. may be to relieve the eye cream skin and prevention of eye wrinkles of the most simple and effective product.
⊙ in the summer I use sunscreen, or a cream containing sunscreen ingredients.
⊙ then the basic make-up steps.
before going to sleep At Night
before going to sleep , no matter how tired, I will finish the following sequential steps:
⊙ same fluid dampened with gentle cleansing wash cotton piece carefully, wipe off eye makeup, and back piece of cotton and cleaned up the other side of the face. washed clean, with a toner.
⊙ under a magnifying glass, carefully examine the skin and if found to acne, antibiotic ointment of some restraint on the point of it.

⊙ using the eye cream.
⊙ using the night cream – according to skin conditions. I use the Night Cream, moisturizing cream or aromatherapy cream, coated in the face and neck .
⊙ use hands and feet and body lotion.
week Every Week
⊙ basically routine care plus mask according to skin situation, you can choose moisturizing mask, MOISTURE or clean my mask several times a week to do, especially when traveling.
⊙ I also applied to the grinding surface of solid soda to remove dead skin cells a week at least twice.
⊙ once a week, with bath salts to remove the body of dead skin cells using special gloves or bath rub.
every 6 months Every 6 Months
to see a dermatologist every six months, I am honored in New York have a good doctor, is my good friend and he always gave me a thorough cleaning, put under the skin deep fat and eliminate whiteheads, he will use peaceful methods to help exfoliate the skin clean and further.
to take care of players, elbows, knees and feet
Hands Elbows, Knees and Feet
I do occasionally nail to nail hospital in New York, nail each corner has a hospital, as little as $ 8 you can get half an hour of nail trimming service, but I still prefer to do their own nails at home, listening to music or watching TV to do the nail lady really enjoy!
lady aesthetic details of Pay Attention to Details
limbs, elbows and knees , are the details of the local ladies, make them beautiful and smooth, in addition to cleansing, moisturizing and remove dead skin, there are several good way:
⊙ every hand side of the pool at home have placed a bottle of lotion. wash your hands immediately after using it, to prevent peeling and cracking.
⊙ night before bed, in the hands, elbows, feet and knees applying moisturizer, such as night to keep it, exposed enough to wear sandals in the summer, you must be very happy.
⊙ bath, volcanic rock with a wide file to remove the child or dead feet.

⊙ I like to do foot massage.
⊙ or ankle when the heel becomes rough when dry, slightly worn on the skin with lava after applying a large number of moisturizer, a few minutes after the wear socks to bed, I? often do, especially in the winter.
⊙ do not walk barefoot.
⊙ exceptionally when that skin care needs, you can in the hand with a mask.
basic manicure tools
Basic Manicure / Pedicure Tools
volcanic rock, scissors paper scissors, nail clippers, nail file to help the horny skin off the stick, hand cream, to light the water, armor oil, nail polish and toe separate things.
choose the color of toenails with Toe Nail Color < br />
than fingernails because toenails beautiful, so bright colors make them look good points and I? often use bright colors such as red. painted white toenails are popular too, but it is easy to dirty look if you like lightweight summer, then the nail on the silver film coated with silver, like, you can continue to use the fall.
universal make-up method

1. eyes with dark brown eyeliner on the upper and lower lash roots lash line. light brown eye shadow on and hit the outer corner of the eyelid and then use the dark gray eye shadow to deepen the outer corner part.
2. eyebrows portrayed with brown eyebrows. and wiping of the brow point of the white, add the control consequences.
3. with a little light Xing Hong lip gloss, lip liner is the Xingse.
4. the face with a light orange-red rouge.
5. nose with a cotton swab dipped in the shadow of light brown powder paint along the sides of two thin nose, and then rubbing open. and then along the bridge of the nose of the white middle cast a Note must take the light brown and the white kneading, do not leave obvious marks the boundary.

universal solution of hydrogen peroxide
3% concentration of hydrogen peroxide solution is the standing of each product at home, I will be traveling with a vial. The ordinary brown bottle containing a lot of neat features.
1 If your mouth is often lit from a small bubble or ulcers, can put a small population of hydrogen peroxide solution containing 5 to 10 minutes in the mouth after the spit, your symptoms will be better soon. I often do in the shower .
2. It is commonly used mouthwash can make the teeth white.
3. If your swollen gums very powerful, but not in time to see a dentist, then put a capful of hydrogen peroxide solution in the mouth for 10 minutes several times a day, so that your pain will ease much.
4. If there is a small wound on the body, can be coated with It will soon be anti-inflammatory to the swelling.
5. the toothbrush soaked in hydrogen peroxide solution to avoid bacterial growth.
6. the hydrogen peroxide solution and water in accordance with 1: After mixing ratio of 1, as the insurance effective disinfectant spray in the toilet, bathroom and kitchen.
7. want clothes more white, when in the laundry add a little hydrogen peroxide, it can easily to wash clothes on the blood.
lady of the essential accessories
Must-have Accessories
◎ handbag
What do you think the most important jewelry? shoes a lot of people think that the most important fact, the handbag is the most important – always carry the day, it will open very often, everyone will notice it. To this end, I do not begrudge the money bought a handbag. compact design, high quality brand-name handbag is very important, but more important is suitability.
When I buy a package, I certainly understand it What is the use if for tours, it must be large, light, and is divided into many cells, easily find what they want, but if it is used for daily work, it can be medium-sized, zipper, and at least two laminated for hosting daily needs, such as my cell phone, cosmetic bag and wallet, etc. As for the dinner with the package, I like the kind of soft, so I can put some more stuff into it. Some Dinner with a real small package, powder or even a cell phone does not fit, so I always do not buy the package, no matter how tempting, because eventually they will stay in my closet useless. pockets is another a class of very useful packages, travel to go shopping and when I use it to put the most precious things.
◎ shoes
my shoe in the major departments of the shoe What is it? with my wardrobe of clothes identical, mostly black, red, pink and orange. I never wear white shoes, dirty too easily in the summer location, I chose the beige shoes – light neutral color, white is easier than the home for.
special occasion dinner or absent, the gold or silver shoes (or red or black silk high heels) with the gold and silver jewelry, all of a sudden be able to show luxurious temperament, I like to add some rhinestones on the shoes or the gem clip, a little change, you can put it to the party had in the leisure weekend or spare time, I also There are a few pairs of comfortable walking shoes or exercise wear shoes.
If you do not take care of, a pair of $ 800 shoes look like 80 yuan to buy.

◎ scarves and shawls scarves
the usefulness of wide range of styles, colors, blooming, price reasonable … … listening to such advertising, but it is clear that clothing can effectively increase the glory. remember me as Yue-Sai Beauty consultants to design the first set of uniform application of many different colors on the scarf, this tradition has been continuous to this day with. you can still see the original beauty of staff through our clothing and scarves so that they reached the harmonization of make-up < br />
as scarves and face very close to, the color should be the first consideration. I like my skin color with matching scarf, because these colors can express our Asian skin, once bought , will be used for a long time.
as accessories, shawls not only beautiful, but very practical, most ladies should learn to use such accessories. Most of my shawl, or the texture is thin or thick silk or cashmere in age, season, coat shawl is a great replacement; in the cold of winter, when you need it, draped in a shawl on the coat to bring you more of a warm; even in summer, when I go out at night will bring a shawl to resist air-conditioned room and outdoor temperature.
join the dinner, I would choose embroidery or sequins big shawl I have some very manufactured in China and India beautiful shawl, every time I put on them, people will admire its exquisite craftsmanship.
I choose different types of scarves:
Long Scarf: chiffon or Wool can be, in a round collar, so that both ends of the natural hanging in the chest.
generous towel (89cm × 89cm): the scarf folded into triangle, around the outside of the suit or shirt.
rectangular scarves (30cm × 70cm): use of very mobile, a knot in the chest, or as a belt or scarf
small square (48cm × 48cm): twisted into a stock system in the collar, can replace the necklace.
◎ corset Corset
Marilyn? Monroe had had a famous saying: “the photographer told me I am the most fascinating points in between the waist and neck. “emergent chest is attractive lady parts, no bad mind, in order to make this” two “healthier, more attractive, in addition to a beautiful bra, the I would like to elect a woman a good baby – corset (corset). different from the Monroe era, and now the corset can be very quiet to hold up the chest, while allowing the waist to become attractive, but also shows the female figure demeanor, Miss Quinn designed the dress for me also add in a corset, every time I put on, all can not help feeling that my body looks really good it!
I do not have children, I think if I were the mother, it would in the adult daughter birthday when she sent a corset to help her complete the change from girl to woman.
purchase corset will be time to consider and what clothes to match, is a low cut dress, then bought a half cup, and color can be flesh-colored or black; if it is with a tight-fitting dress, do not choose a fold or embroidery patterns, in order to avoid revealing to. some very handsome corset, plus the outside jacket you can wear street, so we should pay special attention to color, flesh-colored or not to choose the color of the skin close.
◎ Pajamas Night Gown
home is very private place, but the family should be made Phi ladies charm the place, but very sorry, and now women in China has not done enough on this point, in front of everybody can be called a lady, beautiful and elegant, but a home completely neglect their own, become slovenly untidy!
either translucent sexy pajamas, mopping the floor or the elegant long nightgown, screening on a matter of opinion, But at least buy yourself a beautiful pajamas, ladies glow as the best way to taste.
popular use to create their own style
Incorporate Popular Trends into Your Own Style
back of the eye is the latest trend, but is still really useful classic clothing.
– Yue-Sai
are in fashion industry, each visit, the reporters will ask questions to the uniform, “What is the most popular this season? “Most of my time living in New York every year to Milan, Paris, Tokyo, of course, I am well aware of each season fashion trends, but not a symbol of our slavery to become popular only when it suits you when it is selected it (I know sometimes some people will blindly follow it!) is not suitable for some clothes for your body, but only because it is popular, it attracts your attention, I firmly believe that no matter where their fashion and style are far more popular long.
me if I found the right format, preferring to buy 10 as clothes, and then has to wear down – do not care what the trend.
Here is what I would do something a quarterly basis –
1. buy some of the wardrobe with my clothes matched the color of lipstick and nail the new Yue-Sai oil, and use them to update my look. a new lipstick to make you popular agile and synchronized.
2. If you have a set of clothes, style and color with my body and skin color are great match, then if the price is moderate, then perhaps I will buy a set. you can not buy, because pop always comes, and go.
3. If this year fashion colors and your real skin color does not match without trial, but you want it, then use far away from where your face. For example, you can pants, shirts and even bring in the table to use this color.
learn to relieve stress
Dealing with Stress
because of frequent travel and work things very fast pace of my life and I really love their work, but be sure to ease their own pressure is the pressure caused by the worst effects of the damage to health, many diseases are directly caused by the pressure of fact, I often do something to find yourself a quiet and balanced. I was in college when too many young lives in Hawaii, where quiet and stable life and then I moved to Manhattan, fast pace of life up on a sudden a few months later, I noticed that my muscles, especially back and shoulder muscles, but will often subconsciously nervous, so I start to find some way to ease the pressure, the following training is very effective for me.
AUM deep breathing training AUM Deep Breathing
yogi said, life is breath, if your breathing is shallow, then you just went through half of life. So, the first thing you need to learn is to secure a deep breath when I feel pressure there and they will try to do so –
comfortable to sit down if you can, take off your shoes, drive up the legs, palms up and gently placed on the thigh or knee would be great The second refers to the thumb leaned, chest straight back from 1 to 10, slow, deep breaths (you can be the beginning of the number to five, then the longer the better), I will slowly feel the chest and stomach swelling, shoulder naturally relaxed. from beginning to end, you have to imagine you are inhaling polluted body is white and light. pause, move to the suction, and then gradually from 1 to 10 blow off steam from the nostrils, in the brain to imagine “AUM “sound, or to send the” AUM “sound.” AUM “sound will help you to relax every muscle in the body, from head, neck, chest, abdomen, buttocks, legs until the feet. more for such a practice, You can easily use “AUM” sound to relax every cell of the body.
“AUM” is a Sanskrit word, its pronunciation symbol of the universe, the sound energy. this strange pronunciation of the words consists of four parts:
A (A) – the voice from the back of the throat
U (Woo) – the sound from the mouth next to the

M (Farm) – shut up and the sound
read the words (AUM) after leading a quiet
breath Qi Xi Practice

If you want your face more beautiful, breath will lead to the face – a complete idea of ??relaxing and pretty face covered with glory. will lead to the breath of life to improve your body parts, such as back Some pain, the smell will be diverted to the handle, this is indeed possible to relax sore muscles.
at home relaxation Ways to Relax at Home
◎ music – your favorite music can take you to another world, the charm of ideas will follow the music floats from afar.
◎ bath – like religious ceremony held as serious bath. put away hot participated in bath salts or bath liquid water, put some dough off the lights the music, close your eyes and breathe deeply.
◎ singing or playing musical instruments – to learn a new song, or sing their favorite songs.
◎ reading – to read a long long time since always want to read the book.
◎ for pajamas – and sometimes a home, I will be put on pajamas, to feel very relaxed.
herbal Herbal Medicine
◎ Yue-Sai tea
I created the “Yue-Sai tea “, is to use therapeutic way to make delicious and healthy herbal drink, not only myself drunk at home with the guests to drink will also ask them now to give you a new formula, is about 800 ml of tea pot amount.
4 grams of tea (preferably Chen tea) – warm stomach, nerves, and promote digestion.
10 grams of wolfberry (wash with warm water

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